Stewart Grinnell Washington

Stewart Grinnell Washington was born on July 23, 1957, in Berkeley, California, to Stewart and Estelle Washington. From an early age, Stewart’s love of learning and natural curiosity set him apart, leading him to explore diverse interests that would shape his life.

Stewart’s spiritual journey began as an altar boy at St. Peter’s Parish in Rockridge, Oakland, California, where he developed a deep sense of connection to something greater than himself. His experiences as a Boy Scout further enriched this journey, fostering a profound love and reverence for nature. These early influences came full circle in the many family camping trips he hosted in Yosemite National Park, where he found peace and inspiration in the natural world and shared its wonder with those he loved.

Stewart attended Oakland Technical High School, where he thrived as a member of the Varsity Swim Team and in Theatrical Arts, earning a reputation for his intelligence, humor, and charm. His academic achievements were recognized with a scholarship from the California State Employees Association, which supported his studies at Humboldt State University. There, he majored in theater arts and starred in productions such as To Kill a Mockingbird, Brigadoon, and Lilies of the Field.

Offstage, Stewart was a skilled electrician, contractor, and lighting designer, using his expertise to create beautiful and functional spaces. He balanced his professional work with a deep commitment to service. Stewart volunteered at youth Christian camps hosted by St. Peter’s Parish at Saint Dorothy’s Rest in Occidental, California, and regularly cooked meals for the homeless at College Avenue Presbyterian Church in Oakland.

Stewart played an integral role in the annual Martin Luther King Jr. barbecue at Lake Temescal, combining his culinary talents and community spirit to ensure everyone felt included. His contributions to social justice and his advocacy for human rights reflected his core values of equity and kindness.

Known for his quick wit, infectious humor, and vibrant personality, Stewart was the heart of every gathering. A talented chef and gracious host, he brought people together over memorable meals and conversations. He found joy in gardening, travel, and fostering lifelong friendships, whether exploring Europe, Central America, or his beloved Oakland Rockridge neighborhood.

Stewart loved his family deeply, showing his care in thoughtful ways. His love of reading was matched only by his joy in sharing it with others. A devoted admirer of the arts and humanities, he often gifted his favorite books to his children, nieces, and nephews, each one personalized with a heartfelt note on the first page.

Stewart’s unique spirit even found its way into several best-selling children’s books by his lifelong friend, Patricia Polacco, including Chicken Sunday and Holes in the Sky, which celebrate his remarkable ability to connect with others.

He is preceded in death by his parents, Stewart and Estelle Washington, and his sister, Terry Washington Mosely.

He is survived by his children, Lauren and Avery Washington; his grandsons, Krew and Tate Washington; his brother, Winston Washington; his sisters, Robin Washington Simpkins and Jacalyn Washington Ansley; nephews Andre Robinson, James Ansley, Julian Mosley, and Mays Washington; nieces Brianna Mosley and Wenonah Washington; great-nieces Zuri Robinson and Ardyn Ansley; great-nephews Donovan and Desmond Robinson. 

Stewart’s life was one of creativity, joy, and a profound love for his community. He leaves behind a legacy that will be remembered and celebrated by all who were lucky enough to know him.